Today, I took myself out of the lively online discussion about
the upcoming election in Meadows Place, Texas and left the Meadows Place
Facebook page.
Not because I am no longer interested in or concerned about the
outcome of the election or no longer interested in my neighbors.
I left because someone pissed me off & hurt my feelings.
Now, I don’t know the woman who pissed me off & don’t care
to know her. All I know is that she
interjected herself into a discussion & suggested that I & another
participant should take our personal attack against a fellow neighbor private.
There was no attack.
The other accused, an English teacher, simply rewrote a post by
one of our neighbors – it needed re-writing.
If that English teacher had not rewritten it, I would have never read it
& never known that the writer & I were of like minds.
The writer was not offended by the rewrite, nor was he offended
by my offer to serve as a back-up. His
wife affirmed that he was not offended.
It was all done gently, in good humor, the kind of thing that neighbors
& friends do for one another.
Gently
& with humor
.
All about what the website should be about.
Neighbors exchanging views & getting to know &
appreciate one another. Gently &
with humor.
But this woman intervenes & inserts the suggestion of
disharmony & pisses me off & hurts my feelings.
I won’t forget that, I won’t forget her
intervention & disruption of my participation in the Meadows Place forum.
The Meadows Place forum will continue without my voice or
input. I have no illusions about that.
But I will not participate in a forum whose participants do not
allow for open, honest discussion. A
forum whose participants do not allow for humor.
My life is too short to waste my time or my voice.
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